We live in a world that is enamored with "self".
The danger of this kind of thinking becomes painfully apparent once inside a marriage relationship.
Example: When a wife constantly complains about the time and energy she spends meeting the needs of her husband, that's a sign of selfishness.
1) True Love looks for ways to say "yes".
2) Love is never satisfied except in the welfare of others.
3) Love leads to inner joy.
4) Love covers a multitude of sins (Proverbs10:12)
Buy your spouse something that reflect your love to them